There’s no shortage of advice on how to host a beautiful event. But what about designing one that feels like you?

At XO Social Haus, we create intentional gatherings — weddings, retreats, and experiences that move with rhythm, not rush. Where beauty meets meaning. Where luxury feels calm. Where your energy is just as curated as your tablescape.

Because the best gatherings don’t happen by accident. They’re built with presence, purpose, and flow. This isn’t about doing more — it’s about doing what matters most.

The Why Behind Intentional Gatherings

You have vision. You know how you want it to look, and how you want it to feel. But somewhere between the timelines, the tastings, and the texts, the meaning can get lost.

That’s where we come in.

XO Social Haus was created to bring you back to the heart of it all — to design intentional gatherings that move in sync with your rhythm and reflect your story. We plan weddings, retreats, and community experiences that balance beauty with intention, design with depth, and structure with soul.

Because your event shouldn’t just impress — it should resonate.

And if you’re looking to weave mindfulness and ritual into your wedding journey, our sister brand State of Amor is the perfect place to begin.

What We Believe

• Rhythm sets the tone. The most memorable experiences have flow — a natural rise, rest, and return.
• Luxury is presence. True luxury is being fully there for your own day — calm, grounded, and connected.
• Beauty is only half the story. We believe in aesthetics with intention — spaces that look stunning and feel aligned.
• Gathering is sacred. The people, the purpose, the energy — they all matter. We design to honor that.
• The host matters too. Your experience shapes everyone else’s. Your peace sets the pace.

We’re not here to overcomplicate your event — we’re here to make it effortless, meaningful, and entirely your own.

Looking to integrate this rhythm beyond the event? Stephanie Laur offers tools, breathwork, and strategy to help you lead from your natural flow.

What You’ll Find Here

Consider this your guide — part inspiration, part strategy, part sanctuary.

• Planning & Design — Intentional celebrations designed for beauty, meaning, and flow.
• IMMRSed Retreats & Escapes — Our in-house resets for women, founders, and creatives who need space to breathe and clarity to rise.
• Destination Guides — How to host with ease in awe-inspiring places — blending design, logistics, and intentional travel.
• Behind the Haus — Philosophy, process, and honest reflections on creating gatherings that feel as good as they look.

For deeper reading, explore aligned resources like The Good Trade for intentional living, and Sarah Jenks for meaningful rituals and sacred hosting.

Why Intentional Gatherings Matter

You can have the perfect plan and still feel scattered. Because presence isn’t built from checklists — it’s created through rhythm. When you plan with intention, you make room for what truly matters: The moment before the vows. The pause before the toast. The breath before the next season begins.

This is the difference between events that look beautiful — and ones that become memories.

We’re here to help you create the latter.

And when you’re ready to bring rhythm-led living into your everyday, Stephanie Laur offers tools to support your flow beyond the gathering.

Your Invitation

If you’re ready to lead with rhythm —
To design gatherings that reflect your values, support your energy, and feel effortless —

Welcome to XO Social Haus.

Let’s gather well, live luxe, and move with meaning.

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